People with abilities target society, while those without abilities target their family; people with abilities show off in society, while those without abilities show off at home; people with abilities act arrogantly in society, while those without abilities act arrogantly at home; people with abilities demand from society, while those without abilities demand from their family. If a person has reached the level of specifically targeting their family, regardless of their age, their life is essentially over. In the animal kingdom, nearly all animals with nests survive by sharing resources within the nest rather than fighting and tearing each other apart for resources, such as ants, RATS, and even small birds. Therefore, home is a place for giving, not a place for demanding and venting. You can show off anywhere, but you cannot show off to your family, nor can you target your family; this is a boundary and also a person's bottom line.