10 Unwritten Rules You Must Remember When Marrying Someone:

Rule 1: If you discover your partner has bad habits before marriage, such as being physically abusive, lazy, untidy, or gambling, you must stay away. These issues present before marriage are usually hard to change afterward.

Rule 2: Spouses must share financial resources, keep income transparent, and avoid hiding anything from each other. Be honest and open.

Rule 3: When choosing a partner, first observe how they interact with their parents. If their parents have proper values and good manners, their children are likely to be well-behaved.

Rule 4: In a marriage, the husband should be prioritized first, with the wife following. The husband's protective feelings for his wife come first, which fosters the wife's sense of family responsibility.

Rule 5: Both partners should understand their relationship hierarchy: marriage comes first, children second, and parents third. Take care of your small family first before considering the larger family.

Rule 6: Both sets of parents should be treated equally; fairness is very important! For example, if the husband gives red envelopes to his mother during festivals, he should also give red envelopes to his mother-in-law. If the wife buys clothes for her own mother, she should also buy clothes for her mother-in-law. Treat everyone equally.

Rule 7: In daily life, men should learn to be considerate, and women should learn to be gentle. Use softness to overcome hardness, balance yin and yang, and combine strength with gentleness to go further.

Rule 8: When arguing, women should not bring up past grievances, and men should not dare to tell women to "get lost."

Rule 9: Never threaten divorce to scare your partner; such emotional manipulation can damage the relationship beyond repair.

Rule 10: In life, husbands should compliment their wives on their beauty more, and wives should praise their husbands for being capable. Say fewer degrading words and more kind words because everyone likes to hear nice things!