Allow anyone to leave at any time,

and also accept that things may not go as hoped.

Accept that the world is often unpredictable,
and calmly admit
that you are ultimately just an ordinary person.

Be able to hold on and let go,
the people and things of the past,
let them stay in the past,
no explanations, no entanglements.

Do not try to persuade those whose values differ from yours,
respect others,
but always stay true to yourself.

Have the courage to be disliked,
rather than live under others' labels,
it's better to live by your own definition.