Daily dedicated time for answering private message questions: Regarding real-life choice anxiety, your current issues are: 1. Family background is average, and you have student loans. You want to join the military to alleviate financial pressure. 2. Anxiety about identity transformation, confusion about the future, and hope to make a decision you won't regret. 3. Value conflicts, the collapse of your original cognitive system, worrying that you are "selling freedom" for money. Here's my analysis: Actually, for ordinary people, the most important concern is not political issues, but whether your future life path will go smoothly. The key is whether these two years will bring you closer to the life you want. First, see if you have better options; if not, joining the military might not be a bad choice. The core is to be clear that your awareness is not being changed by the system, and to consider your economic situation after discharge, as well as whether during these two years you can improve yourself, turning time into skills and future advantages. For ordinary people, earning money for practical reasons is not wrong in itself, but it’s important to remind yourself that life ultimately should not be solely about making money. After the pressure eases, you should gradually find a lifestyle and direction that truly suits you.
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Daily dedicated time for answering private message questions: Regarding real-life choice anxiety, your current issues are: 1. Family background is average, and you have student loans. You want to join the military to alleviate financial pressure. 2. Anxiety about identity transformation, confusion about the future, and hope to make a decision you won't regret. 3. Value conflicts, the collapse of your original cognitive system, worrying that you are "selling freedom" for money. Here's my analysis: Actually, for ordinary people, the most important concern is not political issues, but whether your future life path will go smoothly. The key is whether these two years will bring you closer to the life you want. First, see if you have better options; if not, joining the military might not be a bad choice. The core is to be clear that your awareness is not being changed by the system, and to consider your economic situation after discharge, as well as whether during these two years you can improve yourself, turning time into skills and future advantages. For ordinary people, earning money for practical reasons is not wrong in itself, but it’s important to remind yourself that life ultimately should not be solely about making money. After the pressure eases, you should gradually find a lifestyle and direction that truly suits you.