I have a mindset: when interacting or engaging with anyone, I must immediately consider—what are their needs? What benefits or advantages can I provide them? What practical problems can I solve? Once a relationship of mutual benefit is established, they will gain advantages and won't think I'm boring or useless, nor will they dismiss, distance, or belittle me casually. This is not kowtowing; it’s my integrity, my character, and my way of handling relationships.