Attention straight men: Bored this weekend? Flirt with her a little and make her think about you all the time.

1. When a woman says: "Keep it up!"
Low emotional intelligence: Thanks, I will.
High emotional intelligence: Not enough enthusiasm, I need a hug.
2. When a woman hasn't contacted you in a while
Low emotional intelligence: What are you doing? Have you eaten? Sleep well?
High emotional intelligence: If I don’t reach out, and you don’t either, our chemistry is so strong we should go out for a drink!
3. When a woman sends you a red envelope
Low emotional intelligence: Thanks!
High emotional intelligence: I just want to be an ordinary person, greedy for your money! Or your affection.
4. When a woman is cold toward you
Low emotional intelligence: Why are you ignoring me?
High emotional intelligence: I feel like we’ve been in sync lately, all through mental connection.
5. When a woman sends you a food photo
Low emotional intelligence: Looks good.
High emotional intelligence: Ignoring you now? You’re craving me, huh? You owe me a reward.
6. When a woman asks: "What are you doing?"
Just say: I’m thinking about how to get you to come home.
7. When a woman asks: "Do you miss me?"
Just say: More than missing, I’m about to daydream about you.
8. When a woman says: "Today was exhausting."
Usually reply: Then take a good rest.
Humorous man: You’ve been running through my mind all day, how could I not be tired?
9. When a woman says: "Good night, I’m sleeping!"
Usually reply: Okay, good night.
Humorous man: Don’t think about me too much, or I’ll be up all night and I won’t care.
10. When starting a chat, you can joke-flirt:
What are you doing? Do you have time for a relationship?
If not, I’ll just keep secretly loving you!
11. After starting a chat, add some humor:
1. Things haven’t been easy lately, can I hide in your arms?
2. You’re so beautiful, if the wind blows you into my arms, I won’t let go.
12. Add some humorous self-deprecation during the chat:
1. Too many things on my mind, it’s hard to handle.
2. I was young and reckless before, and I still am, just not as carefree.
13. Playfully say goodbye at the end:
1. Don’t stay up late, it’s bad for your phone.
2. Don’t close the window tonight when you sleep, I want to sneak into your dreams.
She likes you because you can give her the feeling of falling in love. Girls also enjoy excitement—they can feel happy, nervous, romantic, and expectant because of you, not just routine greetings like good morning or good night, or asking if she’s eaten or what she’s doing. That’s your charm—you’re someone who can bring her the feeling of falling in love, not just a guy who blindly pleases her like many others.