Are you like this too: when it rises a bit, you want to cash out for safety; when it falls, you’re reluctant to cut losses?



I used to be like that. With 20,000 yuan in principal, I’d rush to exit after earning 1,000, only to watch the subsequent doubling opportunities slip away right in front of me. But what about when I was losing money? I’d stubbornly hold on, until my account shrank by 80% before admitting defeat. At that moment, I finally understood—the problem isn’t the market, but human nature.

**Why does this happen?**

When it rises by 3%, I want to run—that’s called the certainty effect—we’re afraid of losing the profits we’ve gained. When we lose 20%, we keep gambling—that’s called the reflection effect—we fantasize about turning it around. To put it simply, when making money, we act like mice, turning and running; when losing money, we act like ostriches, burying our heads in the sand.

The real awakening came after a 7-day liquidation. That time, I heavily invested in a "potential coin," which evaporated 80% overnight. Since then, I completely changed my approach: no longer chasing hot stories, only focusing on the mainstream coins that have been beaten down the most, like Bitcoin and Ethereum; allocate 5% of the position to test the waters, cut immediately if wrong—treat it as buying a cup of milk tea for the market; as long as there’s profit, withdraw the principal first, and set a trailing stop for the remaining profit to keep the bullets flying.

**The secret to truly surviving is actually very simple: discipline outweighs prediction.**

The market loves to take down smart people, but it rewards those who can stick to discipline—the "fools." How exactly? Don’t guess the bottom, don’t chase the top, only trade in the middle of the trend; before opening a position, decide where your stop-loss will be, and cut decisively if it hits that point; protect profitable trades with trailing stops, so emotions no longer command your actions.

Now, my account still loses money sometimes, but it will never crash again. Because I’ve understood a principle: as long as I can control the loss size, the profits will grow on their own.

If you’re also tired of the vicious cycle of "small profits, big losses," start changing your mindset today. Treat each stop-loss as tuition, each profit as a seed for compound growth. Opportunities are always there in the market, but your principal is just one—there’s no turning back.
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SpeakWithHatOnvip
· 01-06 12:50
It's the same old story, easy to say but hard to do, brother.
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alpha_leakervip
· 01-05 20:19
You're absolutely right, I've fallen into this trap many times. Making a small profit and running, taking a big loss and admitting defeat, it's truly incredible. --- Now I finally understand that discipline is the key, I've had enough of the苦头. --- Why am I so greedy? I can't bear to cut losses when it drops, and as a result, I lose everything in one go. --- Stop-loss is just tuition fees; this phrase must be engraved in my mind to avoid repeating mistakes. --- Brother, your summary this time is excellent. I am also the kind of person who makes a little profit and then runs, but I really need to change. --- Trying 5% is a good move, but it still depends on whether I can really stick to it. --- Moving stop-loss sounds simple, but in practice, when emotions come up, I forget everything. It's too difficult. --- I just want to ask, can this set of discipline really help ordinary people survive, or does it depend on talent? --- The vicious cycle of small profits and big losses is truly incredible. Let's see if I can break this curse starting tomorrow. --- Mainstream coins like Bitcoin and Ethereum are indeed more stable, but can they really outperform small coins? Who knows.
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MEVEyevip
· 01-05 12:30
It sounds nice, but how many people can actually do it? I'm the kind of person who knows the principles but can't actually do it, haha.
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GhostWalletSleuthvip
· 01-04 22:52
It's the same old story, sounding nice but when it comes to the critical moment, everyone is a rookie.
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OnChainArchaeologistvip
· 01-04 22:35
This is my painful lesson, and I finally understand now.
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UnluckyValidatorvip
· 01-04 22:28
Nothing wrong with that, but execution is the hardest part. I'm still the same, a 3% rise and I want to run. --- Only at the moment of liquidation do I realize what human nature is, but even after changing, it's easy to fall back into old habits. --- Discipline sounds simple, but few actually do it. I'm the type who feels great hearing about it but still ends up messing around when placing orders. --- Stop-loss is really difficult. I always hesitate to cut, and as a result, I missed the wave of moving stops. --- I've thought about this logic before, but when the market freaks out, emotions collapse, and discipline is completely forgotten. --- Damn, it feels like they're talking about me. Making a few hundred bucks on 20,000 and then pulling out, losing 5,000 and still holding on—this illness needs treatment. --- The phrase "the problem is human nature" hits too close. Why was I so calm when Bitcoin was falling? --- Moving stop-loss sounds good, but it means constantly staring at the screen during trading—who can handle that? --- The principle that the principal can't be recovered must be engraved in my mind, or else I’ll have to pay tuition again.
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gaslight_gasfeezvip
· 01-04 22:28
Emma really hit me hard, I was completely overwhelmed during the 80% drop.
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